Stupidity called love.

"You can always start loving someone, but you can never stop," it's a fact of life. Yet nobody realises that what so ever. The worst time one faces is when one confronts a break up. Words fly out of your mouth like arrows. The only thought one has during that time is to hurt that one person he/she loved so much. But why?? Nobody ever made any mistakes intentionally. Things just happened in the relation inadvertently. As the person you are trying to hurt is someone so close to your heart, is someone who you know so well, hurting the same person is an easy task. You know when to put down your fingers at the right areas. Nobody realises the irrepairable damage that one has caused in that process. But what one fails to see is that it's not hate that is prompting you to say all this, but it's just another face of love. One that nobody notices, one that nobody wants to look at.

But let me ask you something, imagine that both parties have moved on with their life, but still keep in touch with each other. All the hatred that you thought you had have subsided and all that is left is the good memories you both got. What does that leave you with then?? Just love and nothing else is it not? The guy still feels jealous of the the girl's present boy friend, the girl will always hate to see that guy with another girl. Yet they both avoid to see this.

Coming back to that damage i was talking about,...the reason why is is not repairable is cuz you would never want to get back with that girl or guy even though you love her/him so much so much. At times it is just guilt for having put that person through so much pain, sometimes is the thought that the person deserves so much better that what you are, sometimes it is just the feeling you have that it could never work out well. One can give many arguments for his actions, but that does not change the fact that you will always love that person.

On the other hand there are people who face this impediment with the right spirit and overcome it. They would have succumbed to love when they see it, for they know how to tackle the difficulties. They have been there, they have achieved the wisdom in love, they have felt the power of love. Only they will know what it is that i am talking about, and the others will just keep guessing what am getting at.